Featured Author: an Interview with loladiamond01 (Jowita)

by Kymber

14875392_1832515760314072_1976635931_nI haven’t conducted an author interview for a while but I’m still very interested to know the process other writers go through in order to get their blog posts out and to create such interesting content.
Today’s author is loladiamond01 (or Jowita, as some of you know her). Jowita and I met on the Sims 3 site and I’ve read her blog from the beginning. It’s a really good story which Jowita has written in English, although her first language is Polish. I hope you’ll take a look at her work and enjoy it just as much as I do.
Jowita,14895543_1832516090314039_661868108_o how long have you been playing The Sims and what got you into it?
It’s been like 7 years or so. My brother and sister were playing Sims and I was really curious to start up myself. I was a small kid and I only knew a pony game, where ponies had needs and “lifetime wishes”, that seemed similar to Sims. It was so appealing to me that I even told my mom how much I wanted to try. When World Adventures came out, I was scared of mummies and used to run away from the room where the game took place not to look at them. Crazy time. 😀

Why did you begin blogging your sims story?14881478_1832518326980482_1744440430_o

I began blogging my sims stories, because I used to create stories for my sims since I first started out with it. Of course, until I got into the forums, they were only stuck in my head. Then I started publishing memories and writing in the creative corners. I had almost a year long story that I will never take away from my heart. I even moved it to the blog that no one read, lol. When Sims 3 kind of died, I met the most faithful ones on the Sims 3 site. I got into their blogs and read Stories By Bee (at the time called Isle of the Midnight Sun), Eternally Yours and yours-Noble Doubt. These were very inspiring. With y14895655_1832515976980717_707877205_oour encouragement, I decided it was time to share the fun with my friends and start on my own. My blog is the first really serious one written by me in English.
How do you come up with your story ideas?
Through reading. Through songs. And through thinking. Thinking a lot. I read an interview with Lila Remonn and I can say I absolutely relate to her answer. I think about my characters at school, at home, basically everywhere and anytime. Combined with songs that are endlessly stuck in my head, it is a perfect mix that creates my story.
Do your sims actions help create new ideas or make the st14881563_1832515863647395_539943598_oory go in a different direction then you had intended?
Rarely. When I don’t have any vision of how I want the chapter to be, I turn on the free will. One time in my old story I only played with Woohooer and free will and I can say it was a lot of fun, but stories can’t only contain woohoos. Most of the time I already have the chapter made up in my head.
Which character is your favorite and why?
Noo… that’s a hard question. If we’re talking only about my current story, I would pick Maddie. I started everything with her and I became really close to her. It almost feels like the two sons of he14858766_1832515820314066_102404091_or are now mine, even if it sounds weird. I actually still don’t have that much of characters I can choose from. That doesn’t mean Maddie is me, she has a lot larger boobs and a lot lighter hair that me. Plus I would never be that strong.
What chapter has been the most difficult to write so far, and why?
The most difficult chapter was obviously Chapter 1.14859598_1832516026980712_1510012967_o21 Never-Do-It-Again pt. 1 because setting the poses and dressing up Freddie was really hard. At one point Maddie had her body on the floor and under the house, because it was a bed pose that I had to fit in. There is a really small amount of couple poses where the guy is not holding or kissing the girl. It would be super creepy if Freddie suddenly did it.
14876035_1832516006980714_1377342913_oIs there anything you wish was different about your story?
Yes, I wish I didn’t start it up from memories, because the first chapters are really short and contain pictures of low quality. Oh, and obviously I wish I was a better builder to make the house for my sims. Another thing is my writing. I want to improve it.
14876343_1832515860314062_1183177596_oDo you have advice for any other writers who may just be starting out?
Hey, I just started out! I want to advise that you learn about taking good photos, because I saw stories when the first photos are really bad and it is unpleasant to see that. I also think it’s important to have great friends, like I do, who make you believe in yourself and your writing. And even if no one is reading, they are here for you with their feedback. Thank you for being that person for me.
14881547_1832515813647400_1649750990_oWhat are the challenges of bringing your characters to life?
The challenges are the happenings when they are not the way I want them to be. When it comes to my stories, I am a perfectionist, so (quote from the song) “I just want it to be perfect, to believe it’s all been worth the fight.” I also still have to figure out writing as a man. Basically any other person than Maddie. The biggest challenge is making them life-like, so that readers believe they could exist in real life. I still didn’t quite achieve that.
14895672_1832516050314043_1924869553_oWould you like to share an excerpt of your story or a summary of your story? Or both?
It is an excerpt from the Epilogue for generation 1 that is also a summary :
“I learned that sometimes you have to pretend that you are strong, so you really become strong. I learned that life is fragile and is the gift that you can never take for granted. That there is no coming back. That you have to appreciate every moment of your life, because you never know when you can lose it all.”
Yes, my story is quite pessimistic, that’s why it’s named neverdoitagain.

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bmitjessesue November 2, 2016 - 10:24 am

Tickled pink to know I had a hand in helping Jowita get started. I was just giving advice to a friend so she could get her stories out of her head, as I did. I liked her answer on where she gets her ideas from, as I would never think of music to do that. Very well done to both of you. Thank you Jowita for the shout out!

RosemaryMarie November 2, 2016 - 10:32 am

Thank you, Bee! 🙂 I know that I’m certainly glad you had a hand in helping Jowita as I enjoy her blog a lot. 😀

loladiamond01 November 2, 2016 - 5:35 pm

You areso sweet. Of course you both played a major role into introducing me to the whole thing 🙂

Lil November 2, 2016 - 11:25 am

Great interview. I can relate to where Jowita is coming from.

RosemaryMarie November 2, 2016 - 11:26 am

Thank you, Lil! 🙂

loladiamond01 November 2, 2016 - 11:51 am

Oh, thank you very much. It’s so sweet of you to have conducted this interview with me 🙂

RosemaryMarie November 3, 2016 - 8:17 am

Thank YOU, Jowita. 🙂

Marjorie Watts November 2, 2016 - 3:01 pm

Good questions, and very good answers!! Jowita, I don’t know how you do it, but being able to express yourself in writing, in a language that is not your native one, is actually quite a talent!! I enjoy the stories from both of you ladies…congratz on pursuing your blogs! =)

loladiamond01 November 2, 2016 - 3:25 pm

Nothing really impressing. I’ve been learning English since I can remember plus I see it everywhere around me 🙂

RosemaryMarie November 3, 2016 - 8:17 am

Thank you, Marj! Isn’t Jowita amazing? 😀

katbagal December 15, 2016 - 6:50 pm

I love this! I just start a blog here and I admittedly feel a little self-conscious about my writing. And Jowita, you’re really good! I love reading your blog 🙂

RosemaryMarie December 15, 2016 - 10:10 pm

Thank you so much, Kat! I’m so glad you started a blog. I followed it tonight and I think it looks wonderful. I can’t wait to begin reading. Please try not to feel self-conscious about your writing. Just continue being your creative self and if you love to write, then write. 🙂 I’ll always read it.

katbagal December 16, 2016 - 1:45 pm

Thank you so much, Rosemary! It means a lot 🙂

loladiamond01 December 16, 2016 - 1:55 pm

I agree with Kymber there. No need to feel ashamed or anything like that. I will read it, too, so you now have at least two readers and will be getting more of them as the time passes, I’m sure. Thank you for the compliment, I’m glad you like it 😀

katbagal December 24, 2016 - 12:08 pm

I just now saw this comment, sorry! Thank you so much, Jowita! It means a lot to know that you read my stories any enjoy them 🙂 And you’re welcome, you are such a good writer 🙂

Jerry Peri April 13, 2018 - 6:41 pm

Interesting interview! A little about Jowita is revealed! Such an interesting personality she is!

Kymber April 13, 2018 - 7:37 pm

Thank you so much, Jerry. Jowita’s story is a lot of fun and she’s a real sweetheart, too. 😀

Jerry Peri April 14, 2018 - 7:13 am



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